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Thoughts and Observations, in Random Order, After Nearly Four Years on Facebook

1.  Selfies: If they can’t be eliminated altogether (the ideal), they should at least be limited to those which are to some degree amusing, quirky, or otherwise remotely interesting. I’m not talking about your profile pic (although those of you who change yours 9 times a week need to be heavily medicated). “This is me right before heading out the door to go to work in pretty much the same manner I’ve done every Monday through Friday for the past 15 years, except this time I’ve dyed my hair a slightly different shade of dark brown and am wearing an off-white scarf rather than a pearl-white one,” for instance, would fail to meet the standard. “This is me half a second before impact/being mauled by baboons/accidentally swallowing a shot glass” would be more the thing.

More broadly, before posting anything, ask yourself the following Very Important Question: Is there even the slightest chance anyone, anywhere–including that hermit I haven’t seen since the sixth grade who hasn’t left his parents’ basement or had his skin exposed to natural sunlight in over two decades–will find this the least bit interesting, or is it merely my inner voice being outwardly expressed for reasons still little understood by behavioral scientists? There’s a reason it’s an inner voice, and I’m old enough to remember a time when it was judged perfectly acceptable to have unexpressed thoughts. See, all of our lives contain mundane, inconsequential details.  It is perhaps the one thing we all have most in common. And what do those mundane details themselves all have in common? They’re uninteresting and unworthy of mention. 

2.  Spelling, punctuation, capitalization and grammar matter, even in social media. You ARE being judged if you’ve reached adulthood without mastering the basic conventions of the written form of the language you’ve been speaking your entire life. Yes, we all periodically misspell words, and avoiding occasional subject/verb disagreement and similar slip-ups is impossible even for the highly educated and punctilious. Sometimes especially for those people. Still, if you can spend 5 minutes composing a post, is there some reason you can’t devote an extra 30 seconds to proofreading it? Yeah, I know–I’m a jerk.  But I’m actually trying to help. Most people aren’t semi-literate oafs, so why come across as one if it can be avoided with a trifling effort? Oh, and while I’m on the subject, please repeat after me: IF IT’S A PLURAL NOUN, THERE’S NO APOSTROPHE. IF IT’S POSSESSIVE, THERE IS. Moreover, quotation marks have only a few appropriate uses. If you don’t know what they are, you’re probably misusing them. It maybe unfare, but peeple think your stoopid if you dont right english good.

3.  Single-subject/one-dimensional/extremely narrow interest range posters: ;qlkjvab;;abjk . . . sorry–that was my head hitting the keyboard as I passed out from sheer boredom merely from thinking about you for half a second. I’m reasonably certain they already have websites, chatrooms, and all manner of web-facilitated venues for you to discuss the internal intrigues and doctrinal rifts developing among the membership of the Capricorn Lesbians for Organic Hemp Now! party, upcoming events for the Associated Southwest Douglas County Methodist Alpaca Breeders, and interior design tips for Men with Red-Green Colorblindness and the Women Who Love Them. Such highly specialized interests don’t really belong on a social network of general applicability. I’d give more specific recent examples of what I’m talking about, but I’ve blocked virtually everyone who does this. You needn’t bare it all in order to show us that there’s something–anything–more to you than your favorite esoteric fetish.

Incidentally I include in this category the folks I’ve dubbed “political nuts,” which are those for whom all is political. And I absolutely include those I agree with a hundred percent of the time.  I don’t care if I think you’re right; not only is there much, much more to life than politics, most of the good bits have nothing to do with that wretched subject. This isn’t to say, of course, that it’s not an important topic. As citizens of a republic where the people are sovereign, obviously we should be having frequent and lively conversations about how best to ensure our government–which, after all, works for us, even if it frequently needs reminding of this basic fact–is as honest, transparent, responsive to our needs, protective of our rights and attendant to its duties as any institution devised and administered by fallible human creatures is capable of being.  But some of you dumbasses take life too damned seriously. Post something else. Something personal, spiritual, cute, funny–ANYTHING but politics 24/7.

Here, for lack of a more suitable place in this narrative, I’ll add that we should all be at pains to avoid letting ideological differences wreck friendships. This is a mistake I’ve made a time or two, to my unending regret. Individuals should always take precedence over ideas, since the former are real and the latter mere abstractions. To blazes with isms. Also, as a Christian, I should add that individuals are immortal, and created and loved by God, and this is why we should do our best to love them too no matter how spirited our disagreements. Ideas are ethereal, man-made and, in all likelihood, every bit as flawed and limited as the minds that conceived them. Besides, left or right (I have no use for “center”), we all want the same basic things out of life: Peace, prosperity, and a better world for our children. We certainly disagree, often sharply, over how to attain those things, but there’s no very good reason I can think of to be a dickhead about it. I really need to do a better job following my own advice in this area.

Oh, and workout/nutrition fanatics, especially Crossfitters and “clean eating” weirdos–I don’t know how else to say this, so I’m just going to say it: You’ve joined a cult. We’ll welcome you back into the fold with open arms once you come to terms with this and decide to return to us, but we understand it’s a decision you alone will have to make, and only after you’re ready. Also, you might want to re-read No. 2 on this list, and in the meantime stop posting descriptions of your diet and exercise routines down to the minutest detail. While your intentions are undoubtedly noble, you’re unwittingly causing people to want to brutally murder you with any heavy, blunt object that may come to hand.

4.  Vaguebookers: Just. Stop.

5.  Food picture posters: Ditto. I will give you money. Perhaps even weirder are posters of “food porn”–stock photos of food not actually in the poster’s possession, but which s/he would like to try someday. Yeah, we all like food. Those of us with the good fortune to live in the developed world eat some quantity of it every single day. Get a life.

6.  Oversharers, meaning those who post between 4 and 400 things in a 24-hour period, share anything/everything they’ve ever read that has an html link (and, closely related, those who exclusively post memes, using them as a substitute for ever having to string together words of their own for the purpose of expressing a thought): I’m literally on my knees begging you to cut it out. Use that filter God gave you. It’s called a brain.

7.  Perpetual sad sacks/criers for help: I think you’re sort of missing the point of Facebook, which is to shamelessly exaggerate how awesome your life is, not how much it stinks. Most of us neither have perfectly dismal lives nor perfectly peachy ones, and I’m guessing you’re no exception. Accentuate the positive, people!

8.  “Shamebookers,” meaning anyone who posts things that say “share this if you love your daughter/son/spouse/parents, or you care about public health, or don’t want puppies to be raped” (implying, of course, that none of these can be true if you don’t): Please don’t take this the wrong way, but I actually find myself wanting to physically harm you from time to time. 

9.  Grown-ups who have finally found True Love: I’m being absolutely serious when I say that we’re all happy for you, and equally serious when I say stop grossing us out.  PDAs on Facebook are just as nauseating as literal PDAs. You’re not hormonal adolescents lacking discretion, or for whom there’s no reasonable expectation on the part of others that you should have, by now, acquired basic impulse control. Act your age.

10.  People (of any age) who publicize what should be the private details/drama of your love life: See No. 9.

11.  Argumentative people: Many of you could use a crash course in how to argue. A by no means exhaustive list of what arguing isn’t would consist of  tu quoque, argumentum ad hominem, antiquam/novitam, misericordiam, baculum and populum,(here I’m hoping you’ll entertain yourself looking all of these up), poisoning the well, setting up straw men, creating false dichotomies, verbal diarrhea intended to obfuscate the issue and change the subject with irrelevancies which are non-responsive to the original proposition, and all similar fallacies, red herrings and rhetorical ploys. 

More broadly, congratulations for having a point of view–it places you in a unique community consisting of every human currently living who isn’t in a coma or chronic vegetative state. But not all points of view are created equal, nor are all equally worthy of serious consideration.  Some are the product of hours, days, even years of serious reflection, introspection and the weighing of innumerable considerations which interact with one another in complex ways.  Others result from blind self-interest, ungoverned emotion, or whether or not their proponent happens to have indigestion at the moment.

12.  Controversialists/people who live to stir up conflict, and who love arguing as an end in itself: Seriously, we need fewer goading jackasses like me on Facebook. 

Dauntless Still

It occurred to me a time or two that when it came time for my maternal grandfather, Francis D. Engle–though always “Gramps” to me–to transition to the Hereafter, my family would likely approach me with the task of eulogizing him. I could imagine no greater honor. The original of this brief treatise on Gramps’ life, entitled Dauntless Gramps, was occasioned by his having a stroke last April, at which time it further occurred very strongly to me that the time and energy spent coming up with a fitting eulogy after someone passes might be better spent on a tribute said person might actually have an opportunity to see while still living. This touch-up/rehash of the original is being produced for Gramps’ 90th birthday on November 26, 2013.

Gramps’ “mild” stroke, whatever the hell that means, more than mildly freaked out those of us closest to him. Here he was well into his ninetieth year, yet it seemed never to have occurred to any of us in any meaningful sense prior to the crisis that we might at least consider initiating an earnest round of contemplating life without this ever-present Force of Nature at or near the center of it. Defensive avoidance at its most humanly typical, I reckon.

The brush with infinity rudely awakened us to those long-avoided realities. Speaking for myself–although the others doubtless felt similarly–it also underscored Gramps’ heroism and all of the reasons I’ve idolized him throughout my life. The event itself occurred on April 15 of this year (yeah, tax day often makes me want to have a stroke too, but I wish he’d not taken it so literally). He had already been in a weakened state from some heart and respiratory issues that had been sapping his vitality over the preceding week. The stroke itself temporarily paralyzed the right side of his body and rendered him unable to speak for a few days. He gradually improved, with a spirit that frankly surprised even those of us who know him best, frequently smiling and easily laughing throughout the entire miserable ordeal. If he’d been demoralized or depressed for even a second, he did a masterful job of concealing the fact. Nor was there ever a cross word or merest inkling of impatience or exasperation with the armies of medical professionals who daily prodded, menaced, harassed and discomfited the old lion. Not a one. As a patient under similarly dismal circumstances, there’s zero chance I’d be able to maintain my composure anywhere near so perfectly.

I’ve often thought of the inevitability of one day boring my kids without mercy about Gramps, and about the stalwart generation of those just like him who, without the least exaggeration, saved the world from the blackest tyranny to ever threaten humankind. Of how they stepped up and performed this incomparable feat with unwavering purposefulness. Just a few nights back I was watching The Lion, The Witch and the Wardrobe with my children, and was attempting to explain the opening scene of the film to my eldest. “Honey, the Germans were dropping bombs on the city of London, England, and people had to send their children out to the countryside to live with kind people who would shelter them from danger. It was the worst war that has ever happened, and your Papa fought in it, and helped win it, and saved the world for all of us.”  Yeah, she didn’t get it. Granted, she’s 5, but how will those of us who knew those immortals ever be able to explain it to those who didn’t? It can’t be helped, for it is both the privilege and the curse of my generation–their grandchildren–to be the last that can lay claim to a direct, personal connection to the one FDR laureled with a “rendezvous with destiny” and which Tom Brokaw declared–correctly–to be simply “the greatest.” We’re the last who will have full consciousness of what it truly is that’s being lost as they pass on–a damned irreplaceable national treasure.

Roosevelt plainly understated the case. It was a generation that, in far too many instances, had a rendezvous with a lot of bullets at a tender age, preventing in far too many cases the begetting of the very children and grandchildren that would eventually be telling their story. Gramps took me to Omaha Beach–“Bloody Omaha”–in Normandy when I was 18 as part of a trip that was a high school graduation present. This was the setting of the opening scene of Saving Private Ryan, and it was here the U. S. Army’s first wave landing force took the worst of it on D-Day. I’ve given that haunted scrap of real estate a good going over, both from the perspective of the dug-in Krauts in their reinforced concrete pill boxes and bunkers, and that of the boys charging forth as the gates dropped on the Higgins boats. They were the gates of hell. Private Ryan was no exaggeration of the horror or carnage. Our troops were utterly at the mercy of Nazi machine guns and mortars. Who got hit and who didn’t was not a function of speed, smarts, piousness, popularity or resourcefulness.  It was the blindest and most pitiless of luck. Some simply got hit and some didn’t before making it to cover, of which there was virtually none over the first hundred-odd yards of beach. The Memorial lies a short distance from the beach, and it was there that I beheld the dozens of acres of grave markers for over 9,000 of our dead.  At the time, all I could think was, “Most of these guys were my age.” They should have been looking forward to college, or dating, or starting a family or career. They should have been lapping up all of the delights of that incomparable stage of life: first independence, college (where applicable) and early adulthood. These were thoughts too big to get my head around, then as now. 

America no longer produces near so many of the sort of uncomplicated patriots capable of charging into a wall of steel to secure freedom for generations yet unborn. Most of them weren’t thinking on matters from so celestial and historically retrospective a vantage, of course. They were doing their duty, because they had the sort of strong and straightforward sense of it that seems quaint, perhaps even somewhat foreign to us now. Our fatuous, self-indulgent youth, taken as a group, could never pull off such a feat of word-defying heroism. In the simplest terms, Gramps’ generation was wrought of stouter timber than the 2.5 that have come of age since. From Depression to war was from frying pan to fire, and out of the war they engineered the period of sustained prosperity that secured for their children and grandchildren a life they could only have dreamed of in their youth. And if there’s some vicarious pride I’ll always be able to hold over the heads of those coming after me for having known so many of them intimately, so be it. 

For that’s what Gramps was and is. There’s no discussing the man separate from the generation he was a part of. It was one that endured privations unthinkable to most of us now, and whose reflexive sense of duty was coupled with zero sense of entitlement. What one acquired, one worked for, and ones obligations were straightforward and unquestioned. They had character born of simplicity in morals and ethics. Relativism, revisionism, and similar faddish intellectual detritus had yet to take hold in any mainstream sense. They were ordinary men and women, but the finest and best of ordinary. And almost to a man and woman, they focused whatever gifts they may have had toward giving their children a better shot at the good life than they were given, whether we deserved it or not.

Much of Gramps’ life–certainly the part that predated my arrival into it in 1973–is far hazier in my own mind than I’m comfortable admitting, and it required the assistance of my mother, father and aunt to piece some of the details together. The third of four brothers, he had lost both of his parents by the age of 11 to ailments easily curable today, and he and the other three essentially raised each other from that point onward in then-very-rural Eagle, Idaho. They lived with an aunt for a while, and eventually all four would live in the home his mother had left them once the oldest, Maynard, had married. They worked as loggers by day. With today’s equipment, logging is the toughest profession on earth. With the antiquated equipment of the 1930s, it was orders of magnitude tougher. Tougher still when you’re 12 and 10, as Gramps and his younger brother, Edgar were when they formed a team running the “misery whip,” which was the large crosscut handsaw used for felling timber prior to the widespread adoption of chainsaws.  If there were any child labor laws in effect at the time, it would appear they were indifferently enforced. By night the Brothers Engle had a band and played in taverns. Gramps was on fiddle.  

I also know that as a kid he acquired, for the princely sum of $2, a Winchester single-shot .22 rifle with a busted stock, which he repaired in shop class.  He used the rifle to shoot rock chucks, also known as yellow-bellied marmots, which are a large burrowing rodent ubiquitous in that area. Entrepreneurial from his earliest beginnings, he would sell the fat from the rock chucks, which was popular for use as boot grease. That .22 is the first rifle I ever fired, at the ripe old age of two. Gramps would help me hold it as I aimed it at fresh cow pies, and I’d squeal with delight as I blasted turd particles all over creation.

Gramps was an exceptional athlete, and actually had solid recruitment prospects in major league baseball as a pitcher. As with virtually everything else, the war interfered, and shortly after Pearl Harbor the brothers made their way to the Tacoma area where Gramps went to work in a shipyard welding together the hulls and innards of the vaunted Liberty Ships. He met and wooed my grandmother (“Granny”), Patricia DuCharme, a Tacoma girl and the eldest daughter of a well-to-do Quebequois Canadian developer and entrepreneur. Knowing his draft number would shortly be up, he enlisted in the Army. For an assortment of reasons not altogether clear to me, he was the only one of the four brothers eligible for military service.  

At some point after basic and perfunctory follow-up training, Gramps was transferred to Camp Abbot–which today we call Sunriver Resort–in Central Oregon. It was an Army Engineers training facility during the war, although its time as a military installation was short-lived. The volcanic dust tended to play hell with any troops who had respiratory issues, particularly during the dry months, so it was mothballed after less than two years. Sometime after Gramps proposed (by breaking into song, or so I’m told–all four brothers were quite musical), Granny rode a train down to Camp Abbot for their wedding with her mother, who was the only member of either’s family to attend the ceremony. Not a single photograph recorded the event, which occurred in what is now called the Great Hall–the only building in Sunriver still standing from the Camp Abbot area.  Then it was the officer’s club. Gramps had helped to build it, but as an NCO, was not allowed inside it (other than for his wedding). They lived out the remainder of his time at Abbot in one upstairs room of an older couple’s house, with a single hot plate for cooking and a single shared bathroom for the entire house. From Abbot, Gramps was eventually transferred to Fort Lewis, Washington, whereupon Granny joined the Women’s Auxiliary Army Corps and somehow finagled an assignment working for the colonel commanding Gramps’ battalion there. The couple had a few months together in quarters designated for married NCOs before Gramps shipped to Okinawa in 1943, and would not see each other for two long years.  Such painful separations were, of course, the norm for servicemen while the shooting war was still on.

If Gramps’ youth prior to Okinawa is hazy to me, my knowledge of his time actually spent there is also pathetically lacking in details. I’m to blame, given that I never really pushed much to get him to open up about it. I know he hit the beach after the worst of the fighting was over–during the start of the “mopping up” stage–but that the bullets were still flying and the situation was still tense, frightening and by no means secure. I know he took an Arisaka (rifle) and bayonet off a dead Jap.  He sold the rifle sometime after returning home, but still has the bayonet. I frequently got into trouble as a kid when I’d be found playing with it. As a supply sergeant, he was placed in charge of a small group of Jap prisoners, one of whom spoke English reasonably well. He told me that while they were vicious and scary as hell as enemies, they became perfectly docile as prisoners.  He got along with them and treated them well. This isn’t to say he “liked” them.  Like most who served in the Pacific Theater, that was a bit of a reach. Even decades later, I’d catch him saying such things as, “I used to kill the little bastards, and now I sell them lumber!” After Pearl Harbor, and as the reports trickled in of their treatment of our prisoners in Bataan and other earthly hells, the lingering antipathy is understandable. He did manage to get roaring drunk and have some noteworthy good times with many of his Japanese customers in later years, so obviously the tension had slackened somewhat by then. Gramps is nothing if not forgiving, adaptable, and always willing to reassess even his most strongly held assumptions. He was never a man set in his ways. He certainly came to appreciate that the Japanese of today are not the same people as the beastly, genocidal militants raised under marshal law and the Bushido code during the Imperial era.

I also know he and his fellow engineers built a very nice house on Okinawa that was intended for MacArthur to use as a headquarters, and that they were all a little miffed when the great man changed plans and didn’t end up spending so much as a single night in it.

Gramps indicated to me on more than one occasion that he would have been in the first attacking wave had it been necessary to invade the Japanese home islands. Given the casualty projections MacArthur and others had calculated for such an attack, it’s highly probable he wouldn’t have made it. So I’ll count myself as one Republican forever in the debt of one Harry S. Truman for coming down on the right side of so agonizing a decision and dropping the only two nuclear bombs ever used in warfare. There’s a good chance I wouldn’t exist had he decided against it.

On his return home, Gramps, his wife and brothers (and their families) settled in the Elma/McCleary, Washington area, where they returned to logging. My mother, Linda, was born in Elma in 1947. Not long after, they relocated to Roseburg where my aunt, Marsha, was born 3 years later. They started Engle Bros. Logging in the early 50s, and somehow managed to scrape together the capital needed to buy 12 quarter sections of timber in the coast range between Roseburg and Hubbard Creek.  Thereafter they started a small sawmill on Hubbard Creek–their first foray into the manufacturing end of the timber business. They logged their quarter sections to feed the mill, along with whatever supplemental timber they were able to purchase. None held managerial desk jobs, as all three actively worked for the partnership as millwrights, sawyers, log truck drivers and so forth. When a massive, stand-replacing inferno swept through the area after its first few years of operation, they were able to dismantle the mill and get out with their equipment and personnel literally hours ahead of it.

They sold the dismantled mill and returned, more or less, to a strictly logging-based business model for a time. Maynard and Leland–the two elder brothers–sold out and moved on to other logging and commercial fishing ventures in Newport and Alaska. Ed and Gramps soldiered on, gradually morphing the business into earthmoving and road construction (Engle Construction Corp.), which operated steadily through the 1970s and early 1980s working for the Forest Service, the BLM and numerous private timberland owners. Engle Construction built many of the most iconic roads in the Umpqua and Willamette National Forests. While these road systems were initially put in for timber extraction, they continue to be used by hunters and other recreationists. They also put in the original road system and all of the ponds for Wildlife Safari.

While the logging and construction firms were going strong, Gramps was involved in an assortment of land deals and other ventures.  Most went well, although a few did not. At one point he owned a vast ranch encompassing what is now most of the Edenbower/Stewart Parkway corridor of Roseburg–the area occupied by the hospital, the mall, Wal Mart and so forth. He developed it and sold it off in parcels, dubbing the overall project “Garden Hills.” Once when he, my father and some Engle Construction employees got a bit too exuberant with a blasting project in Garden Hills, a rock the size of a large pickup truck landed in the BiMart parking lot. That brought some unwanted attention. He also got swindled into buying a grapefruit orchard in Texas, and lost his ass.

Of the vast assortment of commercial dealings in which Gramps managed to involve himself over the decades, one merits special mention: His foray into the movie business.  Bill Farmer, a friend of one of Gramps’ long-time employees, Dale Wright, was involved in the movie Sasquatch. It was Farmer’s crew that shot the famous, now iconic shaky, grainy footage of Sasquatch in Northern California, where an unknown creature is seen walking across a gravel bar on a river, then turns and looks back over his right shoulder before disappearing into some brush. That was a cowboy dressed in a hot costume. Another film maker, John Fabian, was also involved. This was an era of great clamor for wilderness and survival entertainment, such as Grizzly Adams, The Wilderness Family and others.

The cast of characters behind Sasquatch made an improbable quantity of money, and Dale somehow finagled Gramps into getting involved in a venture with them.  Gramps instantly took a liking to Farmer and Fabian. These two knew some nut over in Utah named Robinson who believed he was the reincarnation of Grizzly Adams.  Robinson had written a script for a pilot about him, and was allegedly turned down. When the TV show came out, and had apparently made liberal use of his ideas, he sued and eventually won a multimillion dollar verdict.  Most of that went to his attorneys, so he was seeking investors to finish a film he’d started about a guy riding a buffalo.  In short order, Gramps was hooked. 

He and my father went to Utah to watch some of the filming. He financed the building of some of the sets, and, after disagreements led to a parting of ways with Robinson, finished the film himself using copious footage purchased from him.  He hired someone to finish out the script, along with some extremely amateur actors out of Eugene to play some of the roles. He also hired music and editing personnel to piece together the final product.  Unable to find someone he trusted to distribute the film, he handled the distribution logistics himself–first under the original name–“The Life and Legend of Buffalo Jones”–later shortened to Buffalo Rider.

There was a Grand Opening in Roseburg at the Garden Valley theater, complete with a raucous drinking party, and another big opening in Lubbock, Texas (John Fabian’s hometown).  While the Roseburg opening was well-attended (my dad and I couldn’t even get in!), it was a miserable, costly flop in Lubbock, thanks in no small part to its having uncharacteristically snowed in Texas that night.  Texans don’t go anywhere when it snows, but Gramps still had to pay for the theaters he’d booked. Undaunted, he was determined to play the film until he got all his money back. This he did, though he had a rough go of it.  After the initial run, the film was stored in my dad’s basement for a time.  After that, his brother Ed ended up with it when they split up the assets of Engle Construction.  The film can now be found, full-length, on YouTube, where someone posted it mistakenly believing it to have lapsed into the public domain.  Finally, a musical group in Austin called the Possum Posse has used clips of the film in several music videos that can be found on the internet by googling “Guy on a buffalo.”  Buffalo Rider, it seems, lives on.

Engle Construction was thriving in the early 1980s. Then, as it has the lamentably frequent tendency to do, the timber industry tanked–hard–around 1981. Engle Construction went from having several million dollars and thirty-odd miles of road building work booked out ahead of it to zero, as his main clients–Pope and Talbot, Douglas County Lumber Co., Willamette Industries and several others–brought their road construction projects to a grinding halt. In a fit of desperation to keep his sizeable crew busy and continue making equipment payments, he bought a large timber sale requiring $1 million in road work. What he hadn’t counted on was the collective snub that followed. It being taboo in those days for a logger or road builder to compete with their customers by buying timber sales, nobody would buy the timber off the sale, and many friends of long standing turned their backs on him. So in true Gramps fashion, he decided to take matters into his own hands. In 1982, he arrived at the hair-brained idea of purchasing an old rust bucket of a cedar mill in Cottage Grove. His experience in logging and road building for various integrated forest product operations had convinced him sawmilling was where all of the money was to be made in any case. So he bought the derelict old heap and set to work in his usual manner–no half-measures. He restored, refurbished and retrofitted the mill from one end to the other, leaving literally nothing unimproved. By the time Starfire Lumber Co. began operations in 1983, Gramps had leveraged literally everything he had worked his entire life to accumulate.  At sixty years of age, when most men are thinking about what sort of RV to buy when they retire, Gramps was so deeply in hoc with his latest business venture that his bank refused to issue him a Visa card.

To say the venture rode the razor’s edge and had innumerable brushes with oblivion over its first two years in no way overstates the case. Starfire’s long-time timber manager and later CEO, Robbie Robinson, particularly enjoys telling the story of the single timber sale that finally propelled them into the black, and how they were literally nickels away from their maximum bid when the others begged off. It was that close.  From those precarious beginnings, Starfire became one of the top producers of custom high-grade Douglas Fir cuttings in the world, a status that continues to the present.

He and Granny were deeply involved in local philanthropic activities for decades. His cumulative successful enterprises enabled him to create hundreds of jobs and donate hundreds of thousands of dollars to such causes as the Douglas County Library, Mercy Hospital, Wildlife Safari, the Salvation Army and numerous others.  

We lost Granny to cancer in January of 2010. It was a few months after their 66th wedding anniversary. She was extraordinary, deeply loved and irreplaceable.

That’s the abbreviated tale of Gramps’ origins and background. What to say of the man himself?  We’ve arrived at a point in the narrative where it becomes far easier to select observations that may appear random than it is to determine what to leave out. Here I sit, more or less, at the periphery of middle age, and find myself trying to capture the essence of someone who has been a central player in life as I’ve known it up to now. The experiences breezed through in the foregoing paragraphs forged a man of a certain character and temperament. He’s tough, strong, determined and fearless. But it’s equally self-evident that he’s gentle, good humored, stunningly generous and solidly secure. He’s a man who knows who he is and what place he occupies in the world. He has a sounder intellect on his worst day than I do on my best, yet despite being erudite and well-read on any topic that catches his fancy, he’s anything but an “intellectual.” The dialect of his rural Idaho boyhood never left him, nor would it have occurred to him for a moment that it should have. He would bristle at being called “Mr. Engle” by anyone, no matter how humble; to everyone he’s simply “Francis.” Putting on airs and attempting to be anything other than what he is–logger, lumberman and country boy through and through–would be as ridiculous a notion to him as it would be repugnant.

His love for family is a straightforward affair: It is has no limits, which makes it God-like.

If a single word characterizes Gramps, it is warmth. I’m aware of nobody who’s ever reacted to him in any way other than to instantly like him, and to do so purely as a natural consequence of who he is, rather than from any effort on his part to come across a certain way. He’s incapable of affectation. His laugh–a cackle unique in all the world so far as I can tell–is probably my third favorite thing in life right behind my daughter’s lisp and light freckles and my son’s mile-wide, goofy grin. There’s little doubt I’ll miss it more than anything else when he’s not around anymore. It is a contagion that’s impossible to resist, lifting me out of my darkest moods and compelling me to join in even if I didn’t find whatever initially sparked it remotely funny. Damn, but do I ever love that cackle.
Gramps, out of his natural generosity, has given me more material and financial things than I could list or even remember. He’s been a bottomless well of encouragement, moral support and sound advice. But all of those things become insignificant next to the example he’s provided for the sort of man I should strive to be. And strive I will, until I get to the place where I’ll never have to worry about losing him again.

“Looking over the dead (Berlin) Wall, if there is contrition going on among the hundreds of thousands of Soviet agents, including Mr. Gorbachev, who imprisoned, tortured, and killed during the past forty-six years, their grief is stoically contained.  The Jewish community will never let the world forget about the Holocaust.  Understandably so.  Every living German is aware of the holocaust, most of them unborn when it happened.  By contrast, not one in five hundred Westerners could answer the question, How many Ukrainians were starved to death by Stalin from 1930 to 1933?  Not one in a thousand would know that that figure is higher than the figure for all those killed during the Holocaust.  One wonders how many Oliver Stones, so mindful of the suffering associated with Vietnam, will during the next ten years devote their splendid, indignant energies to dramatizing the fate of Eastern Europe during the forty-six years just past.”
–William F. Buckley Jr.

The Extreme Views of Extremely Extreme Extremists

“Those who stand for nothing fall for anything.” - Alexander Hamilton

“I would remind you that extremism in the defense of liberty is no vice.  And let me remind you also that moderation in the pursuit of justice is no virtue.” - Barry Goldwater

You’re an extremist. That’s an extremist position. They’re all a bunch of extremist cranks and loons. So completely are such phrases woven into our political discourse that one would imagine their impact to have been thoroughly diminished by now, except that’s far from the case. Summary dismissal of anything “extreme,” of course, implies an obligation, under pain of permanent ostracism from polite society, to thoroughly moderate ones views on matters large and small. Few things could be more outre, it would seem, than to be extreme in any position. Let us then leave convictions, moral certitude and anything resembling same to the knuckle-draggers. Thus has “They’re extremist” come not only to mean, “they should just shut up,” but also that their views shouldn’t be taken seriously enough to waste any effort in deconstructing or countering them. “Extremist” is now a simple incantation that takes the form of what Jonah Goldberg would dub an “argument without an argument” or, if one prefers, a substitution for anything resembling an actual argument. It’s the bromide which, by its mere utterance, is supposed to make the Tea Partier’s sails go instantly flaccid without further discussion. 

Relativism is the natural offshoot of an overweening desire to avoid extremism and has, to put it mildly, had a deleterious effect on the ability of the present generation to defend both Western values and the civilization they begat. Entertaining a notion that anything might be absolute and non-negotiable is just plain bad manners and–gasp!–uncool.

It is in this, as in so many other subject areas, that I happily part ways with the unquestioned orthodoxy of the generation I find myself a part of, joyfully throwing in my lot with the troglodytes of extremism. To wit, there are at least six matters on which I hold Undeniably Extreme views. A discussion of each follows.

1.  My right to freedom of conscience–to think, believe and, by extension, to say what I wish, by whatever means I choose–is absolute and non-negotiable. The last bit is in italics because, for whatever queer and curious reason, leftists have decided en masse, and only relatively recently, that this right should somehow be circumscribed based on the technicality of whether I’ve chosen to join with others for the purpose of amplifying (so that they might actually stand some minuscule chance of being heard against the saturating din of ubiquitous media) certain views that I would unquestionably have the right to voice acting on my own. Odder still is the apparent absence of any sense on their part of the incongruity in their having parted from their knee-jerk affinity for collectivism and disdain for individualism in this particular area. Collective action, once humanity’s highest calling so far as your lefty was concerned, is mysteriously repugnant when the action in question is speech. The individual hollering impotently in a hurricane is ennobled by this same, strange inversion. All of this, of course, goes in hand with their preternatural hatred of all things “corporate,” never mind that while Monsanto is a corporation, so too is Greenpeace. Corporations are merely individuals getting together to accomplish that which they cannot pull off individually. They can be for-profit or not. But we try in vain to impose any sort of intellectual consistency, to say nothing of sanity, on the left.  

2.  My right to physical and, if necessary, violent and armed defense of my person, my loved ones, and any innocent bystander is absolute and non-negotiable. This right exists in nature and, oddly, nobody has ever questioned it when it comes to any living creature save humans.  Other animals use ferocity, claws, fangs, stingers, strength, stealth, speed or some combination of the foregoing to defend themselves from whatever the threat may be, and were anyone to question their doing so, that person would certainly receive quizzical looks. It would be just plain bizarre were someone to propose “fang control.” We bipedal apes don’t exactly bristle with such armaments, and are the slow-moving meat sacks of the animal kingdom. We make up for that with a genius for designing and fashioning weapons. They’re our means of defense, and the right without the means is worse than meaningless. The right itself, moreover, is not something government can grant or retract. It exists simply by virtue of our status as living, sovereign beings with a natural right to stay that way. It preexisted government, and exists outside of any governing system. It exists, as it were, in nature.

3.  My right to own property, legitimately acquired, is absolute and non-negotiable. See labor, fruits thereof, infra.

4.  My right not to be a slave is absolute and non-negotiable. It’s interesting to me that it’s only been since the advent of Obamacare that some folks have begun complaining that one now must pay a tax simply for existing. This has been the case since 1913, with the ratification of the constitutional amendment which brought about the federal income tax. It is worth noting that among the reasons the Sixteenth Amendment was made part of the Constitution, rather than Congress simply passing a federal statute providing for taxation of income, is that any such statute would have run afoul of the Thirteenth Amendment’s prohibition of involuntary servitude. It being generally the case, with no exception I’m aware of, that one must make a living (e.g., have income) in order to exist, we’ve been taxed on our existence for as long as there’s been an income tax. Prior to 1865, when actual human chattel slavery still existed in this country, it was commonplace for slave owners to hire out their slaves to third parties, who would pay the slaves wages which their owners would confiscate all or most of. Frederick Douglass gives a good and thorough accounting of this practice in his autobiography, which should be required reading in every high school U. S. history course. Involuntary servitude to others resulting from their having a claim–backed by the threat of force–on the fruits of my labor . . . I swear there’s a word for that. It rhymes with “knavery.”

5.  Absent any clear, obvious neglect or abuse, my right to raise my children as I see fit is absolute and non-negotiable.  And I notice that, for the most part, those who would take issue with this assertion tend not to be parents.  Apart from myself, my children are more completely mine than anything else in my life.  Their mother and I are the cause of their existence, the source of their education, care and comfort, and the parties ultimately responsible for them in every respect.  The Village can go pound sand.

6.  My right to privacy–to be LEFT ALONE (freedom from impertinence)–is absolute and non-negotiable.  Should I need to explain this, any attempt to do so would be self-evidently futile.

What each of my extreme positions has in common with the others, of course, is that all denote so-called “negative freedoms,” e.g., those which require nothing of you in order for me to exercise them other than your forbearance.  They are freedoms from molestation by external forces or third parties, not claims to anything which invariably must come from the exertions of others. Since my extremism doesn’t affect you, neither should it irritate you.  But the mental illness common to all leftist ideologues can never see things this way, for to meddle, micromanage and attempt to re-engineer their fellow creatures is the sole driving force in their lives.  Put simply, they are not just reluctant to, but incapable of living and letting live.  The mere suspicion that someone, somewhere may break from their orthodoxy and privately exist in some disapproved manner makes them froward, churlish and chronically ill-at-ease.

"Men born to freedom are naturally alert to repel invasion of their liberty by evil-minded rulers. The greatest dangers to liberty lurk in the insidious encroachment by men of zeal, well-meaning but without understanding."
–Justice Louis Brandeis, 1928